Helping your loved ones delicately and unobtrusively turns out to be harder than you thought.

Until recently, you were justly proud of the fact that you don't ask your "ancestors" for pocket money, but earn extra money for sneakers and tampax yourself. But suddenly there comes a moment when you realize for the first time that it's not enough. It's time for you to take care of your parents, grandparents, and relatives in need.

Of course, your mom and dad are probably not old yet and they work, generally providing for themselves. But if they earn little, if they live apart, or if one of them is no longer alive, if one of the parents is seriously ill, and even more so if they are already retired, you can't do without your help. Many people admit that they really felt like adults precisely when they realized that they could and should financially support their parents.

On bread rolls…

If your parents are really in need, then they probably won't be refusing your help for long. It's best to just give them money in an envelope, as much as you can. You can specify their purpose.: "for medicines", "for dental treatment", "for car repairs". If your parents feel uncomfortable, explain that money is such a thing — today it is there, and tomorrow it is not, and while it is there, you need to use it.

You can also joke: "Mom, dad, the cost of tutors is starting to pay off!" — they say, your parents once made a person out of you, sparing no expense, and now they are entitled to dividends.

If the parents (or, say, a single relative with a small child) are overly proud and scrupulous in financial matters, it will be easier for them to accept "natural" help from you: "Oh, mom, there were live carp sold near your house — I took both you and myself. No, no, you don't need money, you don't!"

If your mother or grandmother is short of money, they will gladly accept from you a slightly out-of-fashion coat, winter boots, a bag, and outdated household appliances.

No, no, of course you can buy them a new one, if you have the opportunity. But giving away a used item, the resource of which is far from exhausted, is also a great help. For you, it will be an incentive to get something new.

As the Americans say, it's better to give a person not a fish, but a fishing rod. This is especially true for relatives who are still young and in a difficult situation. If you tell them how to earn extra money or share the addresses of low—cost sales, introduce them to a person who desperately needs specialists like them, then you will provide these people with the most real help without getting hooked on your subsidies.

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